My "Wisdom"

When you and another person have a problem, go to them an apologize.   

I have found that if you are in a fight with someone, and you go to them and apologize for all that you did wrong or that the other person perceives as what you did wrong... then they in turn will realize what they did and apologize.   

I don't mean make up a bunch of stuff that you did wrong... seriously, you got in a fight, you played some role, even if it's small.   

Account for your sins, and the other person will account for theirs.